Letting someone else have sexual control, or having someone surrender sexual control to you is a massive step in allowing yourself to fully enjoy new experiences, while growing closer spiritually and sexually with your partner.
Are you willing to let go? Are you willing to surrender? Are you willing to be surprised? Are you able to trust?
And!
Are you willing to take charge? Are you willing to control? Are you willing to ask for what you want? Are you able to trust?
HAI Global Sexual Control Workshop
Be prepared for a weekend you cannot fully prepare for. To dance between surrender and control is to be willing to step out of how you usually are, and try on something new. Whether you’re the consummate control freak (Type A anyone?), or habitually go with the flow, “whatever…”. Take this opportunity to dance your edges.
Sometimes we don’t want to look—we don’t want to see those fragments of ourselves that control and those parts that capitulate under pressure. Sometimes we don’t want to see how others see us. What if the tension between sexual control and surrender began to feel like the authentic tango of life? What if we surrendered to our sometimes impulse to control, and controlled our sometimes ache to surrender?
Surrendering Control
What if we closed our eyes and let the inner knowing of our body lead? What if we really saw ourselves the way others see us? What if we could fall to our knees and kiss the feet of the beauty of being human?
This workshop will help allow you to both surrender sexual control, or take sexual control with your partner, while feeling safe, secure, loved and understood. If you haven’t taken our Level 4 Workshop – Exploring Spirituality and Sexuality, you will need to do so first, before taking part in our Level 5 workshop.
During Level 5 I got to watch, moment by moment, my patterns of relating to people in a way that has never served me. Midway through, I experienced an explosive breakthrough and I know now, with certainty, that I have transformed those patterns. I am full of gratitude.
- R.S.
I always thought that I was pretty good at seeing people’s hearts, not just their faces, but Level 5 took that to whole new level. This workshop profoundly changed the way I see the world.
- C.A.